Stress and burnout counselling in Canterbury
For when the pressure stopped being temporary, and started being the way things are.
What burnout can feel like
Stress is normal and passes. Burnout is what happens when it does not, and when there has been no room to recover for a long time.
- Running on empty, but unable to stop or slow down
- Cynicism or detachment about work you used to care about
- Snapping at the people closest to you, then feeling guilty about it
- Broken sleep, headaches, tension, getting ill more often
- Weekends and holidays that no longer make any difference
- The sense that if you stopped, everything would fall over
You do not need to recognise all of these, or be able to explain why. Get in touch and we will work it out together.
How counselling can help
Most people arriving here already know they need to change something. Knowing it has not been enough.
Burnout is rarely just about workload. It is usually tangled up with what you believe you owe people, what you fear happens if you disappoint them, and how much of your worth is bound up in being the one who copes. That is the part worth unpicking.
- Somewhere to stop performing: no one here needs you to be fine
- Looking at what drives it: the standards, the guilt, the fear of letting people down
- Boundaries you can actually keep: not the ones you already know you should have
- Untangling identity from output: who you are when you are not producing
- Working out what has to change: and what genuinely cannot, right now
Fitting it around a life that is already full
The most common reason people put this off is that they cannot see where the hour would come from.
Online, across Kent
No commute at either end. For people working long hours or juggling caring responsibilities, this is often the difference between starting and not starting.
In our Canterbury room
An hour that is genuinely away from work and home, on St Johns Lane in central Canterbury. For some people that separation is the point.
Walking, outdoors
Outdoor sessions in Canterbury can be part of individual therapy: time outside, moving, with nothing being asked of you.
Questions people ask
Practical answers about starting, what sessions are like, and what it costs.
Can counselling help with work-related stress and burnout?
What is the difference between stress and burnout?
Do I need to be signed off work to start counselling?
How much does stress counselling cost in Canterbury?
Carrying on is not the only option
If you have been telling yourself you will deal with this when things calm down, this is worth an hour.
